How to keep my bf interested in me?

[Rissaarissa]

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

[mavericklovesex]

Originally Posted by Rissaarissa

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

How long have u 2 been together? Looks like it is a one sided affair, Is he taking u for a ride? Just my frank opinion

[Bestwife]

I think u r great tat giving in to ur bf.and he needs to sextisfy ur needs s well.have a good talk with him.telling him u like to enjoy e process s well

[Kickinloud]

hi there. I do not think there is anything wrong with you. if he cums early, maybe he have premature ejaculation. good that you really care for your bf. just do not pressure him or stress him out more. just try to ask him to communicate more about anything. both parties need to open up more with each other. this is good for relationships. and you need to see the reality of things no matter how much you want him and love him. if you see the signs or feel that he is not really into you, then you need to be prepare for what might come. you yourself need to talk to someone you feel really comfortable with.

[Rissaarissa]

Originally Posted by mavericklovesex

How long have u 2 been together? Looks like it is a one sided affair, Is he taking u for a ride? Just my frank opinion

We've been together for a couple of months.

[Rissaarissa]

I understand it also depends on the guy's health condition, age and etc. but i know the girl he's having sex with plays a huge part too.

I'm definitely not stressing him out but i'm indeed very stressed out by this. Haha my past relationships do not have issues like that so it is really stressful for me.

Will try to have a good talk with him. I tried bringing this up before but he said that i'm doing well and that i'm good enough

[casey4341]

Mayne you can try to dish out his fav food? Sometimes its not just sexual.

[news799]

how long have you been in this relationship? This will be a good indicator for better advise.

[manly29876]

if i come fast on another gal, means i just want to get it over and done with. Hope that is not the case with you TS.

[malik321]

Why are you the one satisfying his needs? Did he do the same to you? When you keep giving in...its not good also.

[hi2u]

Hi Risa,
A healthy relationship revolves around more than just sex or fulfilling fetishes.
Those are perks of being in a relationship, which would no doubt improve the relationship.
Getting to like his hobbies, doing his hobbies together with him, doing things together, e.g. cooking, housework, etc, these are things that bonds a couple.
Hope that helps.
I am not in a better shape myself either as I just broke up some 2 months ago :/

[abovetheline]

i think theres many good points above

just want to add my thoughts

first if u r super attractive....u dont need to worry

2nd, him coming fast....could be him dont know how to fuck.
so maybe u should be in charge during the session.

bottom line dont spoil ur bf...
guys like bitchy girls.....not nice girls.....jmo.

[ibanezjem555]

I assume TS is just talking about 'interested' is just pertaining to sex after first shot. This is quite common (esp among younger men) and do communicate your preferences which bros here have advised.

Question is: Is he still interested in you after sex ?

If he is still going out with you, holding hands and finding more about you, should be no problem.. then just a sexual performance & preference issue which is relatively easy to resolve.

Rock On

Originally Posted by Rissaarissa

How to keep my bf interested in me for as long as possible?

I have been trying to fulfill his fetishes and giving in to his preferences, he usually cum quickly the first shot but he was unable to cum later at night or even the next morning. We ended up with some blowjob and it just ended there. Not sure if there is anything wrong with me.

[qazxcvbnmlp1029]

how is he to you outside of sex? I dont think it's all that worrying that he cums once and takes very long to recover. Everyone's different after all.

It's more impt that overall the relationship is fine. Your wish that he cums more might be pressuring him also. For eg, during your second rounds he might be like "shit she is expecting me to cum again, sian, have to try harder." This will unfortunately make it harder for him to cum.

I think it's fantastic that you are trying to keep him though. Not that common a trait. Keep yourself in good shape and love him both and bed and outside of bed and it should be fine.

[MsNaNaLim]

Your bf is probably like my ex, just wanna cum & fulfill his needs without servicing his lady.