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26-12-2012, 05:07 PM
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Sex-free for 4 years
Hi, am new here.....
Going thru separation n under medication for depression. Decided to move on hence, join sbf. Not into paid sex n relationships. Just looking for friends to socialise and if women, will see if there's chemistry before going to next level. Honestly, I do not know what I want as I only decided to come out of my shell....anyway, I m rusty n need some guidance to mix around. PM me if u hv suggestions....gals n guys Yes, I hv not been having sex for almost 4 yrs n DIY is once every 2 or 3 months. Used to DIY every week though 
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26-12-2012, 08:23 PM
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Re: Sex-free for 4 years
You should know that many anti-depressants are detrimental to your sex-drive. Google this and see if you should try getting off the medication if you no longer need it.
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26-12-2012, 08:52 PM
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Re: Sex-free for 4 years
Yes aim aware but no choice. My shrink will reduce n we a off the medication by mid 2013
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27-12-2012, 01:41 AM
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Re: Sex-free for 4 years
wow....i actually been through what your suffering now....but i stop medication almost 6months already.....hmmm...been for almost 8yrs since i last have sex until recently 3 months ago lol....but DIY once in awhile...
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27-12-2012, 01:56 AM
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27-12-2012, 09:51 AM
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No choice. I was having insomnia n could go without sleep for days without feeling g sleepy or tired. I was also starting to have suicidal tendencies hence the anti depressants.
I am feeling much better after a year of intense treatment and most importantly I have accepted the situation n stopped blaming myself. I am moving on and decided to look after my health. My wife n I are now like friends n there is no tension between us. We lived separate lives for the past 3.5 yrs and early this year we agreed to the divorce. Anyway, I am very tempted to go for commercial sex but the thought of STD scares me.
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27-12-2012, 12:34 PM
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27-12-2012, 01:45 PM
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27-12-2012, 02:51 PM
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Well, hope you recover from depression soon, I went sexless for 1/2 year plus though I still DIY and really something seems to be missing.
Went for some commercial fun recently and yes it did felt great. There are those who say you can replace sexual joy with other stuff but I guess it depends on the person. Have fun once you recovered and play safe.
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27-12-2012, 03:07 PM
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Sorry to hear about your divorce, TS. A new year is starting soon, hope you will be able to start a new life soon, too.
Life is too precious to consider suicide. Live well and enjoy your new freedom 
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28-12-2012, 01:12 AM
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take care bro, had depression before, when my gf cheated on me
I burnt myself on the hand with cig, one huge hole to remember the pain sat in one spot and didnt move for 3 weeks, smoke and drink beer only felt like shit, when I got up, I said, life will change and I went out and become a big player Now I married, but I still remember the hurt.
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The Best Way to overcome heart break is in the arms of another. You focus on making money, you get girls, you focus on your body, you get sex, you focus on the girl, you get NOTHING but heartache and disappointment
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