How long does your FWB/FB vibe last?

[BackstageBambi]

Hi, am new here. As the title is self explanatory - How long do you and your FB/FWB have that sexual chemistry/good vibes going before one or both parties get a bit bored of each other? And what are some dealbreakers for you E.g the other person has any undesirable traits that emerge over time? Do you sense your FB getting less interested as time goes by and how do you plan to revert the situation if you still want it to continue?

[the2econdlife]

I've had my current FWB for about three years now. From experience, maintain the communication and make sure the sex is enjoyable for both. That's about it

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by the2econdlife

I've had my current FWB for about three years now. From experience, maintain the communication and make sure the sex is enjoyable for both. That's about it

Oh 3 years is a long time to be sticking to one FWB. At any point do you guys get a bit bored of each other and the meet ups get lesser in frequency?

[D-joker]

Is it hard to find a FWB/FB?

I feel its abit hard as most girl want commitment or that exclusive feeling.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by D-joker

Is it hard to find a FWB/FB?

I feel its abit hard as most girl want commitment or that exclusive feeling.

Oh not in my case. I know it’s obviously NSA. Yup most girls eventually end up getting emotionally involved in some way.

[the2econdlife]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Oh 3 years is a long time to be sticking to one FWB. At any point do you guys get a bit bored of each other and the meet ups get lesser in frequency?

Ideally, we'd want to meet like once a week. But it's been like once every three weeks. Of course, I'm on the lookout to add to the FWB list

[Auza]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Hi, am new here. As the title is self explanatory - How long do you and your FB/FWB have that sexual chemistry/good vibes going before one or both parties get a bit bored of each other? And what are some dealbreakers for you E.g the other person has any undesirable traits that emerge over time? Do you sense your FB getting less interested as time goes by and how do you plan to revert the situation if you still want it to continue?

The most exciting part is when we are exploring new things, if there's lots of new things to explore, then the experience will prolong.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by Auza

The most exciting part is when we are exploring new things, if there's lots of new things to explore, then the experience will prolong.

Agree on this. But eventually we all reach the end of the fun things to try out list and then things can become kinda boring. Current fb is a guy who is into mild bsdm lol.

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by the2econdlife

Ideally, we'd want to meet like once a week. But it's been like once every three weeks. Of course, I'm on the lookout to add to the FWB list

Just curious, how do you usually meet FWBs? Apps? IRL?

[the2econdlife]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Just curious, how do you usually meet FWBs? Apps? IRL?

I met this one via a dating app!

[rachangelx]

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi

Hi, am new here. As the title is self explanatory - How long do you and your FB/FWB have that sexual chemistry/good vibes going before one or both parties get a bit bored of each other? And what are some dealbreakers for you E.g the other person has any undesirable traits that emerge over time? Do you sense your FB getting less interested as time goes by and how do you plan to revert the situation if you still want it to continue?

almost one year, as long as you keep making things interesting it'll always be fun? haha

[unsung80]

2 to 10 times is my max, I prefer variety.

[Brother]

the longest i've kept to one is prob 1.5 years

[Dreampie]

For me about few weeks if we meet 3 times a week

[BackstageBambi]

Originally Posted by rachangelx

almost one year, as long as you keep making things interesting it'll always be fun? haha

Haha I agree. I wanted to try a 3some but the fb was unwilling to.