Wonder any bros here uppz or manage to xian those singapore gals selling shots??

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Lumix

But like what the rest say, these girls are used to being approached by guys, if u approach them heads on, be prepared to face a wall

ya, that is also one of the reason why l never ask for the contact from her after the chatting. l dun wan to appear desperate or wad. can say l trying to play cool

but play cool too long, fish swim off liao.

[=M4G=MrX=]

Originally Posted by Lumix

...she ended up standing beside me chatting abt 45 mins, got her number, went out for dinner as well, the rest is history, its abt luck and chemistry sometimes if u know how to talk they can click...

Brilliant! U must have had one helluva smashing time, bro Lumix? Care to reveal a little on the content, what went on during the mesmerizing small talk?

[Lumix]

Well i was at Boiler Room where Soul kool was playing , pretty little people down there, we had some small exchange, she initiated the talk by coming to me and say

"Haiz sianz not much people to buy shots and hard to earn $$"

I replied with a chuckle " Well economy no good ppl use the $$ to get draft beer, cheaper ma"

Then we went on abt how hard is she trying to get customer and i asked what is her goal in working here , how much she can earn, so i shared with her some tips on making $$ la, example investment in blue chips and so on. Thats part of the converstation, then moving on to ask Is she attached and we talked abt how guys tried picking her and getting her number.

All these were done with her standing, i guess their policy was not to sit with customer.

In fact not just i got to know her, she introduced another 2 new girls selling shots to me, fresh on the job super shy and dare not approach customers as well, i din get their number but at least made some small talks and my subsequent trips down to St James, i always assured i wld have some people to chat with lol.

Well maybe my personality is like that, i even made friends with a couple of waiters as well == > i'm straight so that when its crowded i can "get" a table for myself as well

My advise is dun ask for the number at the first sight and u still have hope, acting too cool will make u look aloof , play it naturally but not to the extent of flirting around

[unsung80]

haha i always "chase" those girls away, dun bother me with those shots while i got better stuff on the table. As most bros here, i always stay cool.

[Lumix]

Originally Posted by longwinter

ya, that is also one of the reason why l never ask for the contact from her after the chatting. l dun wan to appear desperate or wad. can say l trying to play cool

but play cool too long, fish swim off liao.

One cheapskate way of getting the number is, by telling her how about exchanging number, at least next time i come if u bored got someone to chat with on the job. but thats provided u're a good talker

[Lumix]

Originally Posted by unsung80

haha i always "chase" those girls away, dun bother me with those shots while i got better stuff on the table. As most bros here, i always stay cool.

Lol true i usually chase them away as well, why get shots when i have a bottle

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Lumix

One cheapskate way of getting the number is, by telling her how about exchanging number, at least next time i come if u bored got someone to chat with on the job. but thats provided u're a good talker

haha, then l tink l have to skip this option liao, me not really a good talker, okok nia. Think let nature take its course bah.

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by Lumix

Lol true i usually chase them away as well, why get shots when i have a bottle

actually if buy shots for the gal and eventually manage to befriend her also not bad mah. Not a bad deal. Even if no uppz also alright la.

[n733]

actually getting their num is very easy....but trying to up them is super hard.....they are so used to having guys pick them up every single nite.....so super well train lor....unless u are very rich/good looking and very pro...or else...dont waste time..... but if u want them jus as friends thats easy but any other intention...jus forget it.....

[Lumix]

Originally Posted by longwinter

actually if buy shots for the gal and eventually manage to befriend her also not bad mah. Not a bad deal. Even if no uppz also alright la.

My friends teach me why spend so much when u can get them for free , he showed me the art of getting those chick at T.Pagar to have fun with him whole night for just 2-3 shots , no need to be like ang mo spend so much

[davelws]

go down to a club regularly. ( best if daily )
be seen by them regularly.
then it wll be quite easy to know them as you ain't no stranger to them anymore.

[massa]

As most of them xiao mei mei,so i think look play a big role in sianing them. If u gd lookin, then chances will be higher.

[X-Guy]

Originally Posted by Lumix

Had an experience with one of those girls selling shots

lol... same girl? there is one who is short and fair with cute face. saw her a few times. went there on 1 of the crowded nights and she ask me to buy shots from her. buy a few from her and we had a chat. as it was too crowded, she cannot move so she ask me to buy the rest of her. i reject (spend quite alot already) then she offer to feed me. i was thinking what she meant by feed me? then she drank 1 of the shots and feed me mouth to mouth! she continue to feed me the rest of the shots (but my hands also "auto roam" her). can see a few envious eyes staring at us.
but once all the shots are done she stopped me. chat awhile more than she said she needs to go back get more shots. gave me her hp and ask me to wait for her to knock off.
after her work, drove her to a nearby park to chat and it was cold so i hug her. wanted to bonk her there but she play hard to get. in the end back in my car still manage to bonk her. still meet her once in awhile nowdays.

[LeManz]

I have to say you're lucky with your encounter. I've met several gals who sell shots and have even dated some of them. Ultimately I can tell you, at the end of the day its a wasted effort. The good looking ones will dump you in an instant if they find a better looking guy or a nicer guy, there was this case of a guy who bought a Honda Civic Type R and got dumped after several months. Whether he actually got to bonk her I got no idea, but I do know she only dated him cos she wanted to brag that she had dated a guy who drove a sports car? I've also had an encounter with one of that gals partners, after befriending her she demanded that I had to drive an ALFA ROMEO before she would go out with me? They both used to work at Jazzy 51, now I think they rotate all over the place, though they work at Mask 51 once a week I think.

As for befriending them, only one or two are decent gals. For the rest you have to spend hundreds of dollars buying them shots before they will keep your number in their phone. I'm serious here, these gals will give their number easily so don't feel happy if you get it too. The catch here is that the gals will ignore all calls and messages they receive unless yours is a number that they keep in their phone? And if they don't see you for a month, they'll delete your number immediately. I've had this problem with almost all of the gals in this line.

And do they stray? Yes. I've caught this particular gal out with her other boyfriends on several occasions. She's damn cute, petite with an awesome bod and tanned figure. Sports a prominent tattoo, in fact that's how I recognised her. She was the last straw as now I've sworn off such women cos they're really not worth it. Almost all the bar-top dancers I've met and dated have cheated or strayed, and as for getting in bed with them, all of them gave "conditions" or prerequisites before they would go to the hotel with me. It was such a turn off.

I'm now tempted to write several brief descriptions on several bar-top dancers whom I've met before and where they dance. Should I?

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by LeManz

I have to say you're lucky with your encounter. I've met several gals who sell shots and have even dated some of them. Ultimately I can tell you, at the end of the day its a wasted effort. The good looking ones will dump you in an instant if they find a better looking guy or a nicer guy, there was this case of a guy who bought a Honda Civic Type R and got dumped after several months. Whether he actually got to bonk her I got no idea, but I do know she only dated him cos she wanted to brag that she had dated a guy who drove a sports car? I've also had an encounter with one of that gals partners, after befriending her she demanded that I had to drive an ALFA ROMEO before she would go out with me? They both used to work at Jazzy 51, now I think they rotate all over the place, though they work at Mask 51 once a week I think.

As for befriending them, only one or two are decent gals. For the rest you have to spend hundreds of dollars buying them shots before they will keep your number in their phone. I'm serious here, these gals will give their number easily so don't feel happy if you get it too. The catch here is that the gals will ignore all calls and messages they receive unless yours is a number that they keep in their phone? And if they don't see you for a month, they'll delete your number immediately. I've had this problem with almost all of the gals in this line.

And do they stray? Yes. I've caught this particular gal out with her other boyfriends on several occasions. She's damn cute, petite with an awesome bod and tanned figure. Sports a prominent tattoo, in fact that's how I recognised her. She was the last straw as now I've sworn off such women cos they're really not worth it. Almost all the bar-top dancers I've met and dated have cheated or strayed, and as for getting in bed with them, all of them gave "conditions" or prerequisites before they would go to the hotel with me. It was such a turn off.

I'm now tempted to write several brief descriptions on several bar-top dancers whom I've met before and where they dance. Should I?

Thanks bro for the advice and ur comments! wah wan to date them out still have to acquire a specific car!!! can ask her go fark spider la. Then how u react to her request when she told u this, bro? really curious how u reacted back to this crazy gal.

For me, l feel that there may be some 1 or 2 decent gals out there, but after a while if they still in this line, they may be tainted as well.

anyway l think l will like to disclose a bit of my chatting conversation wif the gal. Went out of the pub to have a smoke wif her, and we are chatting abt normal routine stuffs initially, then asked her why she into this line? told me she want to save $$$ for her uni, she was a A lvls student. Then she ask me why me and my friend come here. Anyway the pub l went is LA. l give a sloppy answer , saying that nothing to do so come here chill out lo, she give me a kind of sacarastic look. She must have know that l come here for fun. From this l know she not simple. So l proceed to ask her beside this, got do any extras? l say to her since u so pretty, sure have customers askin or demanding such requests from u. She told me, have. but she feel that the $$$ is not enough, not right. Then she told me there was this customer who offer $5k, l almost choked sia!! $5k,l feel like shooting her , saying wah ur pussy make of gold and plated wif diamonds har

bro, u shld. l will be the 1st one to support ur encounters and stories. please do share. Afterall In SBF, we are suppose to share abt everything. oh ya, sumtinz to add, are those bar top dancers are singapore gals as well?