I need help and advice

[gyrfalcon]

He is obviously unhappy with you. Examine yourself and ask yourself what have you done that irk him? Talk to him about it. If you have wronged him then show him you are remorseful and seek his forgiveness.

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by mushroomplanter

Hi, I am new to this forum..Lately I have problems with my husband and our marriage is on the rock.He is always having DIYs session himself.
I really do not know what is happening between us.He doesn't really wants to do it with me.He says each time I am getting from bad to worst.
Can anyone out there be able to tell me what a guy really wants from a wife?
I am really vexed and confused....

Your description is too brief to give a good or practical advice. Give more specific details like some bro mentioned. Once the picture is clearer, am sure lots of bro/sis here will give you lots of advice. Good luck.

[TheGreatOne]

just to share, not sure if my following will offend any ladies here.

personally i would want my wife to be good mother, care and concern and whatnot for the kids.

i also want her to be presentable outside and being wild inside bedroom.

[Gerald]

Originally Posted by TheGreatOne

just to share, not sure if my following will offend any ladies here.

personally i would want my wife to be good mother, care and concern and whatnot for the kids.

i also want her to be presentable outside and being wild inside bedroom.

Well said. This is also what I want in a wife.

[Oralcraz]

Originally Posted by Gerald

Well said. This is also what I want in a wife.

Of course. This is the most ideal mother/wife. However, not many are so lucky.

[newstarve]

i can tell u from my point of view,

i dont want a wife that nags a lot and complain about every little little thing the 1st moment she sees me.
that could really be a turn off and i would rather fast from making love.
these nitty gritty things can put me off sex in any kind.

just my two cents worth.

[kwaychup]

Hi TS,
maybe you n your hubby need to have some talk.
why issit happening?
also why he prefer to diy then do it with you?
have you offered to hj him? tease him abit?
there's alot of factors and based on your quite loosely information
bros here can't really deduce much from it

[sootongs]

Originally Posted by silverblue

Dear TS,

Can you post your picture so that we can understand the situation better?

lolz dude, how in the world will her pic help...your imagination?? Or you banking on the looks of da wifey turning hubby off??

[CheeBye Licker]

well since he is DIY then u can be 70% sure ehe is not having an affair.

that means you need to check if it is because the other big problem guys usually have... $$

Honestly u need to share more details before we can give any useful advise.

Conspiracy theory : he got std from somewhere and avoiding sex till he is clear.

[huat_ah_888]

Best is to have an open talk with your husband. Nothing beats that. Good Luck

[cinos74]

Originally Posted by mushroomplanter

Hi, I am new to this forum..Lately I have problems with my husband and our marriage is on the rock.He is always having DIYs session himself.

I really do not know what is happening between us.He doesn't really wants to do it with me.He says each time I am getting from bad to worst.

Can anyone out there be able to tell me what a guy really wants from a wife?

I am really vexed and confused....

sis
lack of info, eg how often u used to have sex with him. when did it start reducing in frequency..how long u married, how old are both u. etc etc.

[lovehurts]

Yeah...it may a blessing that he chooses to DIY instead of other means. But if it is habitual & he prefer it that way, then it is a problem OR an arising problem.....Look at him in the eye & look yourself in the mirror.

Imagine guys know about their wives preferred DIYing and not wanting their meat. I think it is an insult or problem whichever you want to call it....guess the wife here will feel the same too. For women, they can satisfly men even if they themselves are unwilling....same cannot be said for men. Hence, for women to eat outside is an easier task to hide. At least, TS husband still in homeground though only "training" rather than playing away games.

Now the question is who ...he is thinking of when beating his meat ? Megan Fox ? Ann Kok ? Patricia Mok ? Or someone more realistic ? The young new office girl ? Your recently divorced neighbor ? His widowed classmate that you saw crying in his arms ? Or even his SIL after reading sammyboy ? Remember, it don't takes alot of effort to lead a man astray......