Need Advice!!!!!!!!!! in big Dilemma

[alan0338]

Originally Posted by charmguy

Also can she report me for cheating for sex? Is there such law? Thanks!

dun worry la, my fren also same same,only 2 years jail for rape ... not so heavy sentence ...

[see see only]

Originally Posted by charmguy

Pls advise me what to do and what is the consequences? What will happen to me if she call the police? Pls help! Thank you brothers...

Keeping all the contacts and sms will be very helpful to your case ... if necessary take photos of them just in case something went wrong to your phone

Btw not all police is a fool ... she did went to your house willingly by her own (1st point) .... the rest will depends on the content of your sms.

[wynchn]

Originally Posted by charmguy

Thanks bro for your reply.

She came knocking on my door and said she wants to come in then will I let het in, she pulled me over and hugged her then there's all started without saying anything.

Bro, may I asked, I thought prostitution (FL) in Singapore is not illegal as long she is not under age? Also can she report me for cheating for sex? Is there such law? Thanks!

I think FL is illegal whether she is underage or overage. U may 1 2 consult other bros. cheating for sex???.? Nvr b4. Sorry cant help u much.

[charmguy]

Originally Posted by alan0338

dun worry la, my fren also same same,only 2 years jail for rape ... not so heavy sentence ...

Hi bro,

I am not worried that she reported me for rape as she did text me of enjoy the sex so that won't be the case.

Just wonder what other excuses will she report to police?

Thank you!

[charmguy]

Originally Posted by see see only

Keeping all the contacts and sms will be very helpful to your case ... if necessary take photos of them just in case something went wrong to your phone

Btw not all police is a fool ... she did went to your house willingly by her own (1st point) .... the rest will depends on the content of your sms.

Thanks bro for your advice! Great! Relieved to hear that.

Hope she won't come out another new excuses to report to police.

Thank you!

[charmguy]

Originally Posted by wynchn

I think FL is illegal whether she is underage or overage. U may 1 2 consult other bros. cheating for sex???.? Nvr b4. Sorry cant help u much.

Really? I never heard of FL is illegal? Really is it true?

Any bro heard of this? FL is illegal?

Thanks!

[Schnitzer]

Brother..

I think you look see look see only la..but then if she cannot tahan then tell her the actual problem. Same time also u will look like saint for being honest..unless she tell you she's ok if she gets infected because she loves u..u just use ur hand for u..and finger for her laa...(tongue also can) try exploring innovative ways bro..

[forgetmenot]

Originally Posted by wynchn

Hi All bros, I text her this moni and even gave a the website on herpes n of cos the website is DRC website and what else. I told her it is perfectly alright n normal for her to be angry and mad at me. But when ever she needs me, just call me n I will be there for her............ To my surprise, she called me n to meet up. Cut the story short, I pick her up and drove to east coast park. When in the car we did not speak at all. In my mind, I was thinking shld I or shld I not tell her I contracted herpes from a local FL few years ago.

Finally when standing at the break water, she ask did I contracted herpes from my ex or from prosititue. I told her and say I got it from prosititue. She gave me a dirty look and ask did I do went for std check up. Of cos I did and after that she just told me to send her home. When I reach home, I receive a text from her, if we are tgt will I look for FL? I reply her I have already quit (but I was thinking I will only quit when we are TGT)she scold me dirty bastard. She demand me to do a full body check up and std check. What make confuse me is she say she will do the check up tgt with me...........

I'm confuse..........,

So, any new development? Have you 2 gone for the check-up??

I just wanna add that by doing the check-up together (is she just accompanying you or undergoing a test of her own??) it is a good chance for her especially, to hear from the horse's mouth about the risks involved and the precautions to take when she's together with an STD-infected partner. Should you two go down the aisle eventually at least she is aware of the risks and is prepared.

By her going for a test of her own, any skeletons in the closet will get exposed too. Let's hope there aren't

I admire your honesty and also her bravery in confronting what other girls may deem a nightmare. What she really needs now are assurances from you (in staying faithful and cautious) and the doctor (that you are safe to be with). I sincerely wish you two all the best in your relationship

[secretguy]

Herpes Statistics

One out of five of the total adolescent and adult population is infected with genital herpes.

Infection is more common in women (approximately one out of four women) than in men (almost one out of five).

Male-to-female transmission is more efficient than female-to-male transmission.

One in five Americans have genital herpes (yet at least 80 percent of those with herpes are unaware they have it).

About 80 percent of American adults have oral herpes (cold sores).

An estimated 25 percent of American adults have genital herpes.

Genital herpes affects approximately one in six Australian adults

Approximately two-thirds of people who acquire STDs in the United States are younger than 25.1,3

About one in five people in the United States over age 12 (approximately 45 million individuals) are infected with HSV-2, the virus that causes genital herpes.2

According to the A.H.M.F. (Australian Herpes Management Forum) genital herpes is under-diagnosed — of people with genital herpes simplex virus infection only 1 in 5 are diagnosed and, up to 80% of cases of genital herpes are not recognized as such by clinicians.

At least one in four Americans will contract an STD at some point in their lives.

Up to 1 million new HSV-2 infections may be transmitted each year in the United States.1

Costs associated with genital herpes totaled approximately $237 million in 1994.3

Genital herpes infection also is more common among African Americans (45.9%) than among White Caucasian (17.6%).

Since the late 1970s, the number of Americans with genital herpes infection has increased 30%.

The largest increase of genital herpes is among young White teenagers.

Genital herpes infection is now five times more common in 12- to 19-year-old White adolescents.

Genital herpes is twice as common among young adults ages 20 to 29 than it was 20 years ago.

[wynchn]

Hi Bros, went for check uo with her. everything is clear... she is fine i am fine (Not really Fine).... after the knowing the results..... she told me to send her home. after reaching her house, she told me lucky she did not get any STDS if not i will hv to take care of her forever. when she got out of the car, she told me to delete her phone no, dun ever look for her again...... as she do not want to see me anymore and she feel so dirty ( i did not even share drinks or food with her how can she be dirty)......... she dun1 to see me anymore............ now den i realise she went check up is to find out is she affected, if she is den i will have to take care of her. if she's not den i can fuck off forever............... haiz........................... i seriously think that no woman can accept their partner that has std..............haiz........... anyway i have to thanks all the bros and sis here for the support.

[nacal]

Originally Posted by wynchn

Hi Bros, went for check uo with her. everything is clear... she is fine i am fine (Not really Fine).... after the knowing the results..... she told me to send her home. after reaching her house, she told me lucky she did not get any STDS if not i will hv to take care of her forever. when she got out of the car, she told me to delete her phone no, dun ever look for her again...... as she do not want to see me anymore and she feel so dirty ( i did not even share drinks or food with her how can she be dirty)......... she dun1 to see me anymore............ now den i realise she went check up is to find out is she affected, if she is den i will have to take care of her. if she's not den i can fuck off forever............... haiz........................... i seriously think that no woman can accept their partner that has std..............haiz........... anyway i have to thanks all the bros and sis here for the support.

that's great bro. she just doesn love you enough or willing to toil it out with you. she might just wan someone to leech off.. good luck~

[forgetmenot]

man, i was still hoping for a happy ending

[Botakhead]

You should feel relieved too, she's not worth all your effort then, let her go, get her out of your mind. Out there are plenty of girls waiting for you, good luck.

Please remember :

FUCK SAFE

[fouredz]

Originally Posted by wynchn

Thank s all the bros for advise. Just came back home after gg out with her. Had a wonderful dinner and some drinks. Finally, she told me she like me and wonder do I like her!!,,,! OMG..... Of cos I like. But I just kept very quiet.

Wen sending her home, at the car park. We nearly kissed but I back out and she was puzzled and ask y did I back out. I paused for a few secs and muster all my courage to tell her I have STD and is herpes. She got a shock and I told her tt if she is not able to accept it. She can choose to forget me as a fren.

I confess to her I like her and even has planning for our future if we are tgt. Before she leave the car, I saw her tears rolling down. She did not even look at me when she left. I dun blame her and in fact I felt very relived after tt.

To all,concerning bros, when I noe I fall in luv with her. I actually consult a doctor. The doc told me is ok to have sex with or w/o helmet when there is no breakout. Avoid sex when there is breakout. Maintain a healthy lifestyle can help to reduce the no of breakout.

bro.. you have my salute... you are a man.

[Austere]

Bro, What you did here was the right thing.

No matter the outcome, When you look back. This is call responsibility.

Assholes will call this stupidity. But you, Did what a true man should do.

Wish you all the best.

If you really feel very troubled for future relationships, You can seek help from doctors, ask him can intro you women that are in such situations.

I read before in USA, got herpes dating webbie for those that contracted herpes. Easier to accept each other this way.