Total breach of Privacy and Confidentality

[Meepok Dry]

very scary !

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Remember the 7 deadly sins.

* 3.1 Lust
* 3.2 Gluttony
* 3.3 Greed
* 3.4 Sloth
* 3.5 Wrath
* 3.6 Envy
* 3.7 Pride
The effects of Lust, Sloth, Envy and Pride are what cause the downfall of many people in this forum.

Hallelujah....the boz has seen the light....

[newbird26]

Originally Posted by battyboy

Can see that you are not a newbird at all.

well i here since 03... what u think..

like me, lie super low will be fine.. haha

[leeman]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

READ MY SIGNATURE. It has been the there since day 1! I didn't put it up just for the fun of it. The warning is there because I am very familiar with the failings of human nature and I know the sort of evil that lurks in the minds of mankind!

I have always warned against meeting people from this forum. However, my warnings have often gone unheeded as TCSS sessions have been happening on a regular basis since the early days.

I therefore offered an alternative and that is NOT TO REVEAL YOUR PRIMARY ON-LINE MONIKER to others... IE... the one that you use to post FRs and reveal other intimate details about your life.

However, another aspect of human nature manifests itself on a regular basis and that is the desire for respect. Well known senior monikers here who publicise their exploits want the same status to be bestowed upon them in real life. That's why many succumb to the temptation of revealing who they are in SBF.

As you can see for yourself, the end results are never pleasant.

Remember the 7 deadly sins.

* 3.1 Lust
* 3.2 Gluttony
* 3.3 Greed
* 3.4 Sloth
* 3.5 Wrath
* 3.6 Envy
* 3.7 Pride

Yeah totally agreed with u

[badboyzbleu]

bro jinrenhe,

I just don't understand y u dun expose those motherfucker? i will expose them and tell my gf to wake up her idea. ask her she trust you or some other fucking back stabbing guy friends? bro jinrenhe, karma is retributions. let you course of actions be their retributions. EXPOSE THEM!!! THIS IS THEIR RETRIBUTION!!! WHY MUST YOU WAIT FOR OTHERS!!! EXPOSE THEM!!!

[ilovelife.now]

holy $hit!!! what the fcuk... can only think of 2 things lor..

1. to chase ur gf by showing that u r cheating on her - to take revenge on u by doing that or
2. split u folks by whatever means possible & get ur gf for themselves..

so buddy the right way now if u want ur current gf too much is to abstain from SBF.. or if u r willing be bold with her & break up.. u can't continue once the initial suspicion comes..

HTH,
~sam~

[secretagent1016]

bro jinrenhe,

my 2 cents of advice.

Never Never TRUST anyone.

When people change their mind, anything can happen. There is no such things as good friend, best of friend, brother etc.

On the other hand, your gf still talked to you and you still have argument show that she still care about the relationship. So, be good till everything is over. Time will tell.

Cheers
secretagent 1016

[LostALau]

Originally Posted by Fowler09

well was told tat i guess wrongly by a person who zap me n told me that i was a smart alec while i seriously don mind bt i guess tat must be the person who sabotage bro Ts well to tat person i believe there is karma in tis world u zap ppl smtimes u also get zap well i realli don mind bt i believe if u z the one who sbo bro TS well wats ur intention wan to break other ppls reltionship n benefit urself well one day the same will happen to u gd luck

Bro Fowler are u a lawyer how come yr msg no punctuations one

[LostALau]

Originally Posted by jinrenhe

Dear bros,

I never ever thought this would happen to me!!

This forum is not purely just a fuck and sex place for me - over the years, I've also made some wonderful friendships here (dear bros, u know who u are) and also enjoy all the coffeeshop discussions about love and life in general... Basically a wonderful chill-out zone for me to unwind after a day's of hard work.

Recently, strangely, my gf started getting all paranoid about my life and bombarding me with all sort of accusations about me cheating behind her back???

After all the hassle, I finally discover why - some motherfuckers here found out about my online identity in this forum and told my gf everything about me.

They even went as far as to update my gf everytime i made a post here or each time I ask for a FL contact (dun these ppl have a life? )

Casting aside debates on whether is it "morally right" for me to be in a commercial sex forum since i'm already attached , I just though it was absolutely despicable for these ppl to be doing such things.

Trying to play hero by "warning" my gf about my dubious activities here and trying to score some points with my gf (i know who you are ... fucking loser).

Anyway, the other purpose of my post here is also to seriously warn all the bros here ... esp for those bros who are married and with kids, i guess the implications and consequences may be far greater.

I find it disgusting that there are such despicable losers lurking around in this forum - isn't there a basic respect for privacy and confidentality, especially for an online community that shares such sensitive information

Bro, I emphathize with u. I share the same motive as u. Come to the forum to TCSS, to destress, and occasionally get some contacts for a good rub-downs etc etc.

However, I am different in that I am very prudent with my id. I never give out my handphone number or my email address openly. I dont let friends who know my family know about my past-time.

Perhaps I have learned from my other stations in life, be it work, business and even family; that one will never know who can be trusted and who cannot. Sometimes, even your own family members can turn against u when there is a conflict of interests.

I have always led my life like a gentleman..... honest, upright, fair, understanding, loving etc. (except for some weakness towards gals ). Unfortunately there are some people who dont. They sabotage me for the lamest of reason, out of jealousy or plainly just enjoy doing it. So always be on your guard.

In your case, since there are ppl who are trying to sabotage u .....whether out of good intention or badwill, you have to lie low, make up with your gf and carry on with life. If necessary use another id and dont let anyone else know it. As for how to deal with that person, it is another story liao. My two-cent worth.

[Jacky Wu]

一次被出卖，是无知。
再次被出卖，是该死。

[kewlest]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

No action has ever been taken against anyone having more than one account. In fact, if all you do is use two nicks to post messages, I wouldn't even know that the two accounts belong to the same person.

The only time clones have been placed under moderation is when the accounts are used to manipulate the rep system.

I have attended many TCSS sessions but nobody knows that I am the nick "sammyboyfor" for the simple reason that I DON'T TELL ANYONE!.

When people ask, I just say I am an avid READER of the forum.

you just gave yourself away :P

on a more serious note, it pays to be cautious
one's identity can easily be CSI and dug out with the little clues we left behind in online msg board

[jng1103]

some guys just dun know whats NOT to say... or watch his mouth... i really hate these people... they are typically low IQ

[asdfghjkl]

play by the rules.