i am grateful she is still by my side

[shanghai kid]

Early 2010.......

yan: 我约了个人和我们一起吃饭。 (there is another
person joining us for dinner)
me: 谁啊？(who)
yan: 你的老婆(yr wife)

with abit of laughter, i looked on at the direction that she pointed, there is my wife walking towards me, suddenly a bolt of thunder has hit me and i am left dumbfounded....

time really flies and it has been two and half years since that my wife come face to face with my called girlfriend. we have been married for almost four years and we have a lovely three years old daughter that motivates me now and then. i am grateful that i still habe a wife tht lovee very much still by my side despite her know that i have an affair not once but twice.

Eversince i hurt her so deeply, the simple trust that she has towards me simply vanished without a trace. we would argue and quarrel whenever i would go home late or just by chilling out simply just with friends, to her , i am just finding a new woman to spice up the many hours that i have after office hours

Sex with my wife become less to nil after she become pregnant 3 months into our marriage, i would have thought that i be a good husband to my wife and sacrifice all my womanizing activities that has dominate my life since i started stepping into workforce society.

yan: 你骗了我那么久，今天应该说清楚了。
(u have lie to me for quite some time, now is the time to sort it out)

what can i say? i looked at my wife which i have let down terribly and at the same time , a woman who i have been deceiving for the past six months, i just wanted to get out. I will never have thought i will face such a situation... this is really game over...

[acidicavex]

Support await more update remind me of my own showdown.

[freeneasy168]

Interesting to see wat will happen, awaiting your update

[sp150]

Wahh bro interesting starting the story with a high note...pls share thks.

[alan0338]

camp here ...

[tmr3]

Friction or true storey? Anyway, camping for more.

[Reoxy]

Lease a Long Term Spot in this thread.

[laksa328]

seems like most man can't escape the fate of cheating lol..

[shanghai kid]

Originally Posted by tmr3

Friction or true storey? Anyway, camping for more.

bro, this happen to me two years ago, and all the incidents that happen has a huge impact on my marriage life now.

will continue the story later...cheers

[Brainstorm]

This is a very fierce way to start a story.

[comm]

hope u still in 1 piece 'mentally' afterwards

[wally888]

sounds real, camping for more..........

[slider_72]

Camping here too.

Sometimes I wonder why society has changed so much over a couple of generations. In the past, even up to our grandparents' era, it was not an issue for men to have more than one woman. 三妻四切 was considered normal, and even to some extent, a way to flaunt a man's wealth.

Having a large family unit was helpful in having more people looking after the household, the children, etc.

Gone are the days when the men are the real heads of the household. Nowadays, the women are in charge. Woe betides a man should he ever step outside the boundaries of his marital vows (and who the heck came up with those vows anyway?!?!?!).

Nowadays, us men are grateful when our wives forgave us for straying. Whatever happened to the days when it was the men's prerogative whether or not, and how many concubines he wanted?

[shiokpleasure]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Camping here too.

Sometimes I wonder why society has changed so much over a couple of generations. In the past, even up to our grandparents' era, it was not an issue for men to have more than one woman. 三妻四切 was considered normal, and even to some extent, a way to flaunt a man's wealth.

Having a large family unit was helpful in having more people looking after the household, the children, etc.

Gone are the days when the men are the real heads of the household. Nowadays, the women are in charge. Woe betides a man should he ever step outside the boundaries of his marital vows (and who the heck came up with those vows anyway?!?!?!).

Nowadays, us men are grateful when our wives forgave us for straying. Whatever happened to the days when it was the men's prerogative whether or not, and how many concubines he wanted?

Still have la. Question is u ready to potong or not?

[LovePotion]

camping too.