If the chick/FL have your baby, will you marry her?

@Wendy@ · #1 19-10-2006, 07:56 AM

marry her or ask her to go for abortion?

misterjoy · #2 19-10-2006, 08:17 AM

HHey Wendy You already said it's a FreeLance... how you know the baby is yours?

Well if it did i would let her decide.

mscucky · #3 19-10-2006, 08:19 AM

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Originally Posted by @Wendy@

marry her or ask her to go for abortion?

carrying a baby is not an ez thing to do. it's a life and a very innocent life...alot of factors need to be considered for the welfare of the baby....

refeing to ur qn as above, if i m a FL or a chick, i guess it may not be so appropriate to carry the baby....simply becoz i m not sure how the kid's future will be certained...

this is a very serious qn and alot of thinking needed to be done....

there are alot of factors to be viewed...

if i m the mother i will see if we can afford to raise this kid yet. i will hv to see if this kid will suffer if born...anybody to tend to this kid...giving birth is one thing... but if to give birth to it and to let the child suffered without proper love. without proper food, education and basic needs, it would be my biggest regret coz this child of mine will hv a very long journey to go.....

many kids were born out of wedlock. it's very pathetic to see they were unattended. hence, the future of this kid destroyed as they left with no proper guidance...

at this point of time, i wud say i rather suffer emotionally to lose the baby as i can't bear to see the child of mine facing uncertain future.

however, if i hv gd financial ability. enuff savings and good conditioning and that i can give love to my child independently,i will carry on to have this baby and be a single mother nor matter wat it takes ....

marriage?

can u marry a man a man slept with u just for sex and lust ? i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

curiosityz · #4 19-10-2006, 08:22 AM

absolutely agree with you, mscucky !

Archonzon · #5 19-10-2006, 08:26 AM

GF, yes.
FL, No.

I hope you are not asking this question...becos ur bf got u pregnant...

Kyser Soze · #6 19-10-2006, 08:30 AM

Getting pregnant is one 'Job Hazard' of being a FL/WL. Hence, always ensure protection in place. If this really happens to me, the question is: "Is the child really my child?" Being an FL, she would have slept with dozens of men. How could I trusted her? Especially I'm the kind who always wear rubber doing a FJ. I never do raw... All right, rubber is not always reliable. But at least I made an effort to protection she and myself.

Rose Palace · #7 19-10-2006, 08:55 AM

Sex for money = No
Sex for love = Yes

PacWizard · #8 19-10-2006, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by @Wendy@

marry her or ask her to go for abortion?

If it's really me who made her pregnant, I will tell her to go for abortion. At the first place, we were engaged into intercourse for the sake of lust for me and money for her and not love. To love someone you marry or to marry someone that you love. Whatever way, it involves love.I may consider marrying her if I'm not married yet but then will she accept me as her husband? hehehe ... think about it.

Cheers ~

PacWizard

rooter · #9 19-10-2006, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by mscucky

carrying a baby is not an ez thing to do. it's a life and a very innocent life...alot of factors need to be considered for the welfare of the baby.... i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

Agree wif mscucky & i also believe in karma ie. abortion is not a gd deed for both parent & unborn child. so if unable to control urge to hv sex, be responsible & take preventive measures.

jus my personal opinion, no offence pls.

mscucky · #10 19-10-2006, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by curiosityz

absolutely agree with you, mscucky !

my pleasure

Castrol · #11 19-10-2006, 09:33 AM

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Originally Posted by @Wendy@

marry her or ask her to go for abortion?

if you are FL and you are pregnant with your customer's baby, what you gonna do?

sing1nitestand · #12 19-10-2006, 10:10 AM

since ur question is "chick/FL" got pregnant, meaning they are doing raw with you (and maybe some other customer as well). Thus, even proven the child is yours, you still need to consider if the child is infected with any disease or not.

Think twice...

ju87 · #13 19-10-2006, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by mscucky

i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

Every situation is different, of course. But if I got some FL pregnant, I DON'T wanna know about it. Not my problem. Not to sound callous, but there's a reason why we pay for commercial sex. It is to avoid situations like this.

If it's not FL, then it's different. Like I said, every situation is different.

natsuki · #14 19-10-2006, 11:00 AM

If u think that the baby is not urs, do a DNA report...

beingunknown200 · #15 19-10-2006, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by mscucky

however, if i hv gd financial ability. enuff savings and good conditioning and that i can give love to my child independently,i will carry on to have this baby and be a single mother nor matter wat it takes ....

marriage?

can u marry a man a man slept with u just for sex and lust ? i think i will inform him that i m carrying his child since he is half owner of my child. he is anyhow the father and shud know the existence of the baby. whether he will marry or not, it's another qn.

It's very interesting that women nowadays are less concerned if the "father" or guy is in the pic. Realized that the reasons why a lady would keep a baby n why a guy would want a baby are different. Guess it attributes to the fact that women can be more financially independent, and they r more resilient when it comes to fighting for the survival for her baby n herself.Maybe women have become less trusting of (unfaithful) men...haha which makes me think sometimes that guys are regulated to the point of just providing our dicks for the impregnation portion. We might just be redundant. Haha hence I understand why some of my friends are lesbians. Anyway I have always great respect for women, maybe cos most of my friends are women, hanging around them rubs off me.

But I still believe in a "complete" family of father,mother n child cos this is still the norms n standards of our society. Its healthier for the child to grow up in, obviously parents must still give lotsa of love to child.