Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 1563

stillgottheblue · #**23431** 26-12-2015, 11:38 AM

Viber is cheap and good so far.

justachillguy · #**23432** 30-12-2015, 11:43 AM

Troi oi, finally finished reading the thread. Started reading from 1st page but jumped to 2013 onwards after deciding that I've got no time to read through 5 years of posts and some of them would have been not so relevant anyway.

Sifted through tons of posts, made a mental note of whích seniors are SME of which areas (cam on rat nhieu to all viet seniors for all the selfless sharing and advices).

And cheers to all the bros who successfully tied the knot with their viet wife and tamed them. Hats off to you !(Because that usually meant that your way of handling them works and that you're also a successful (at least relative to others) person in life (financially and career-wise)).

pusielover · #**23433** 30-12-2015, 12:13 PM

The golden universe rule: do to others the way u wanted others to do to u.

milfmilf · #**23434** 30-12-2015, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by justachillguy

And cheers to all the bros who successfully tied the knot with their viet wife and tamed them. Hats off to you !(Because that usually meant that your way of handling them works and that you're also a successful (at least relative to others) person in life (financially and career-wise)).

Tamed, handling...
Is that marriage

pusielover · #**23435** 30-12-2015, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by milfmilf

Tamed, handling...
Is that marriage

Or vice versa our Việt wives tamed us from being arrogant

justachillguy · #**23436** 30-12-2015, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by milfmilf

Tamed, handling...
Is that marriage

Tamed the prevalent vb nature in them: like changing their priorities from mother to kid and husband; mule-like stubbornness; etc etc.

damong777 · #**23437** 31-12-2015, 06:50 AM

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Originally Posted by justachillguy

Tamed the prevalent vb nature in them: like changing their priorities from mother to kid and husband; mule-like stubbornness; etc etc.

Not easy to change vb thinking...they are family and short term oriented.

pusielover · #**23438** 31-12-2015, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by justachillguy

Tamed the prevalent vb nature in them: like changing their priorities from mother to kid and husband; mule-like stubbornness; etc etc.

It's the husband's job/duty to change what you seen as their weakness to strength.. If we make them feel at home n part of our family, she will hv a new family to take care of

damong777 · #**23439** 31-12-2015, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by pusielover

It's the husband's job/duty to change what you seen as their weakness to strength.. If we make them feel at home n part of our family, she will hv a new family to take care of

not that easy to change vb thinking. teaching them how to budget expenses ady quite challenging.

pusielover · #**23440** 31-12-2015, 12:08 PM

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not that easy to change vb thinking. teaching them how to budget expenses ady quite challenging.

Yes bro I agreee! Given in their hometown they can't hv nice food n cloth as in sin, so when in sin they will eat n eat buy m buy...
Take for instant we hv many dreams ie tour Europe buy big car bla bla bla
When no $$$ we Lan Lan... So one fine day we strike 2mil toto... If not careful in 1 or 2 yrs can fnsh all... That's human natural lol
It's takes time bro... With care n geniue love things will surely happen as we desired to be

Hurricane88 · #**23441** 31-12-2015, 12:18 PM

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Originally Posted by damong777

not that easy to change vb thinking. teaching them how to budget expenses ady quite challenging.

correct...so dun bother to change the vb...let them do what they want...

If tio toto 2mil...I will use the money to enjoy with many more vbs...why need to stuck to one...

pusielover · #**23442** 31-12-2015, 12:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

correct...so dun bother to change the vb...let them do what they want...

If tio toto 2mil...I will use the money to enjoy with many more vbs...why need to stuck to one...

Yes bro to each it's own, some may desire to settle down n hv family, during old age children by their side... While others enjoy cheong all the way

vietbulover · #**23443** 31-12-2015, 06:14 PM

just came back from my chick's hometown. now in the process of laosai-ing.

vietbulover · #**23444** 31-12-2015, 06:22 PM

i thought no chance to fuck at her hometown because i am staying at her house with her family. but nothing can stop us. check in this motel and did her full tank. best part, she paid for the room.

stillgottheblue · #**23445** 31-12-2015, 07:44 PM

It's a mistake to change a person mentality especially when they are already adult.