How to get out of a KC trap..

[SkyDemon]

The line between KC and returning for good service is quite the thin line. Sometimes I also wonder when I go back 'regular' whether I am actually KCed.

Still, purely a transaction. Pump, act a bit like in relationship, fill the need, then go out of the massage parlour, back to normal until the next time the need occurs again.

[trichard]

Originally Posted by SkyDemon

The line between KC and returning for good service is quite the thin line. Sometimes I also wonder when I go back 'regular' whether I am actually KCed.

Still, purely a transaction. Pump, act a bit like in relationship, fill the need, then go out of the massage parlour, back to normal until the next time the need occurs again.

Good comments..

[singmarine]

What if she willing to give you creampie?

[BigShintaro]

Waiting for someone to up me .... so that I can response......

Up you already but not sure how the points work! Good luck, bro!

[trichard]

Originally Posted by BigShintaro

Up you already but not sure how the points work! Good luck, bro!

Thanks ..... .... saw it is 0 point now from -1

[trichard]

Originally Posted by BigShintaro

Up you already but not sure how the points work! Good luck, bro!

Thanks bro..

[Unbelieveable]

Never fall in love with a lady in this line.In the end u will be the one to suffer. Try to keep urvself busy so that u wont think of her.I understand this is difficult but it is a good decision

[BTech]

Originally Posted by trichard

I have fallen into a second trap.....
But looks like can handle better now ..
Really must learn the art of ..收放自如。

R u mad to fall in KC trap?????

School holiday. Ah ??!!!

[the_e_ones]

Originally Posted by singmarine

What if she willing to give you creampie?

Bro singmarine, I will not want to give... raw is war!

[trichard]

Thanks all brother for advise. I believe as I go along I will be able to handle better and play safe ... Seem like first time is the most difficult to get over..

I will close this thread for good....cheer..

[trichard]

.............Thread closed...................

[rrghy]

Recently heard this story from my friend.

He was about to get married, then went to Taiwan for stag night. Over there, he met a girl who somehow reminded him of how fresh and fun a new relationship is. According to him, he felt like the new girl showed him what true love is, how his current fiancee not good enough, etc etc.

Long story short, he come back then change his mind, don't want to get married already. Instead, he spend all his time with the new girl, message her, send her presents, plan to visit her.

I think we as friends got nothing to say. We already jio him out for dinner, then spend damn long tell him he is retarded. But he refuse to listen, say the new girl is genuine.

I will update if they got happy conclusion to their story, but I got my doubt. From what he tell us, she is just another KTV girl there, and after reading this thread, I think my friend will have rude awaken soon.

SIGH

[trichard]

Originally Posted by rrghy

Recently heard this story from my friend.

He was about to get married, then went to Taiwan for stag night. Over there, he met a girl who somehow reminded him of how fresh and fun a new relationship is. According to him, he felt like the new girl showed him what true love is, how his current fiancee not good enough, etc etc.

Long story short, he come back then change his mind, don't want to get married already. Instead, he spend all his time with the new girl, message her, send her presents, plan to visit her.

I think we as friends got nothing to say. We already jio him out for dinner, then spend damn long tell him he is retarded. But he refuse to listen, say the new girl is genuine.

I will update if they got happy conclusion to their story, but I got my doubt. From what he tell us, she is just another KTV girl there, and after reading this thread, I think my friend will have rude awaken soon.

SIGH

Oh man .... This situation don't look like KC ... More like GT ....

[thedevil666]

i wouldn't say it is GT or KC. i think after u have been in a relationship long enough, whether just bgr or marriage, when some thing new comes along, it just opens up a whole world of new things.

i have been with my wife married for 3 years and paktor for abt 9 years before marriage. i used tinder somewhere last year. match and match, what seems to be a time filler become something more serious. i met up with one of the girl. like what rrghy's buddy experienced, suddenly u see all the flaws of your partner, and u are willing to give up everything u have built just for the new girl. luckily, things didn't turn out that bad. almost divorced, but manage to salvage.

i'm still tindering for fun now and dating some girls here and there. and recently, another girl came along. im struggling between this girl and my wife again. unlike the first girl, this one is better. but of cos, i hope it is not bcos something new is always better theory.

the feeling of being wanted and dating is something lost when u are into a serious relationship for too long.

i dont blame and can totally understand why some guys got KC or GT.

[strikeback44]

Originally Posted by thedevil666

i wouldn't say it is GT or KC. i think after u have been in a relationship long enough, whether just bgr or marriage, when some thing new comes along, it just opens up a whole world of new things.

i have been with my wife married for 3 years and paktor for abt 9 years before marriage. i used tinder somewhere last year. match and match, what seems to be a time filler become something more serious. i met up with one of the girl. like what rrghy's buddy experienced, suddenly u see all the flaws of your partner, and u are willing to give up everything u have built just for the new girl. luckily, things didn't turn out that bad. almost divorced, but manage to salvage.

i'm still tindering for fun now and dating some girls here and there. and recently, another girl came along. im struggling between this girl and my wife again. unlike the first girl, this one is better. but of cos, i hope it is not bcos something new is always better theory.

the feeling of being wanted and dating is something lost when u are into a serious relationship for too long.

i dont blame and can totally understand why some guys got KC or GT.

Big question. those you dating in tinder....do they know you are MARRIED ?