Am I being too greedy?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by macmillan

Can I just go out and bonk some of the chicks I find sexually attractive and then after that go back to the one I love, or find a new one to love?

It is easy to bonk chicks you like but not easy to find someone you love and who loves you back. A woman's figure changes as she age. So what if someone new and nice now becomes old and fat in future? Change again?

What if you become bald or cannot bonk in future due to diabetes or no longer as hard and recover as fast as now or earning a lower income in future? Valid reason for your gf/wife to change for someone else too?

[macmillan]

Valid point but at different stages in life we prioritise certain things more right?

What u said might be true for me 10 yrs from now?

Originally Posted by Xgenre

It is easy to bonk chicks you like but not easy to find someone you love and who loves you back. A woman's figure changes as she age. So what if someone new and nice now becomes old and fat in future? Change again?

What if you become bald or cannot bonk in future due to diabetes or no longer as hard and recover as fast as now or earning a lower income in future? Valid reason for your gf/wife to change for someone else too?

[draven78eric]

Originally Posted by macmillan

Can I just go out and bonk some of the chicks I find sexually attractive and then after that go back to the one I love, or find a new one to love?

Nobody can stop you when you decided right?
Do whatever you want and just dont get caught..
Also...advise...
上得山多终遇虎

[Fat Fatt]

Originally Posted by taikongcard

Well said.

agree fully

[macmillan]

Actually, my own experience is that it is easier to find chicks who love me than it is to find girls I'm sexually attracted to.. Appreciate others may have had different experience..

In fact I've had several such long term relationships where it was "true love" but was never fully satisfied sexually

Originally Posted by Xgenre

It is easy to bonk chicks you like but not easy to find someone you love and who loves you back. A woman's figure changes as she age. So what if someone new and nice now becomes old and fat in future? Change again?

What if you become bald or cannot bonk in future due to diabetes or no longer as hard and recover as fast as now or earning a lower income in future? Valid reason for your gf/wife to change for someone else too?

[unknown443322]

any advice for someone (me) who get bored of a relationship easily who get bored of gf and break up after a few months ?

Also I found out that most girls need guys to become their bf before they can have an intimacy relationship with guys.

I feel guilty for lying but just cant help myself in order to bed them. Appreciate if someone can give me some advices.

[mrnakal]

Originally Posted by unknown443322

any advice for someone (me) who get bored of a relationship easily who get bored of gf and break up after a few months ?

Also I found out that most girls need guys to become their bf before they can have an intimacy relationship with guys.

I feel guilty for lying but just cant help myself in order to bed them. Appreciate if someone can give me some advices.

How young are you?

True. Most girl wants to be treated as gf before going further sexually.. There are of course girls who only wanted a one night stand or a fuck buddy. These kind of girls are usually very discreet about this. That's why it's difficult to find these kinda girls. You need to really explore.

What do you lie about?

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by macmillan

Actually, my own experience is that it is easier to find chicks who love me than it is to find girls I'm sexually attracted to.. Appreciate others may have had different experience..

In fact I've had several such long term relationships where it was "true love" but was never fully satisfied sexually

Basically it suggests you have no confidence to go after girls you are sexually attracted to. Probably because you know they are out of your league. That is why you have a history of settling for girls whom don't meet your standard. Day 1 already don't meet your standard but after so long then bring out issues to complain. You probably think you are being kind and charitable to such girls when you accept them. Better to have a pussy around than to PCC alone at home right? That is why you have several long term relationships where it is 'true love from them' but no full sexual satisfaction for you. You harm the BBWs the most because you give them false hope of marriage and long term future and then shatter their trust in men.

Come I clap for you for being kind to 60-65 kg girls and not having the balls to go after the girls you think you deserve.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by unknown443322

any advice for someone (me) who get bored of a relationship easily who get bored of gf and break up after a few months ?

Also I found out that most girls need guys to become their bf before they can have an intimacy relationship with guys.

I feel guilty for lying but just cant help myself in order to bed them. Appreciate if someone can give me some advices.

Not sure if you hear about this but guys give love to get sex while girls give sex to get love. You also know you are being an ass by lying to them right from the start. No intention for love but just break up after you are sick of them or when a new target shows up. Some of these girls may really hate you for life as a result. If you are young, that's just sowing your oats. Still not so bad.

But good to set an age where you will find a proper gf with intention to settle down. Sort of a reminder that you had played enough and now it is time to get serious. There is a long term danger you will give up too easily in a relationship. Any minor quarrel may lead to thoughts of break up because it is easy for you to find a new gf. You may also end up disliking sex because all type of breasts/vagina/sexual positions/location you have tried before with many partners. Nothing new from your future wife that can really satisfy you.

[macmillan]

Thanks for the encouragement, I'm fully going after the hotter girls now FYI

It's harder, but I dowan to give up so easily

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Basically it suggests you have no confidence to go after girls you are sexually attracted to. Probably because you know they are out of your league. That is why you have a history of settling for girls whom don't meet your standard. Day 1 already don't meet your standard but after so long then bring out issues to complain. You probably think you are being kind and charitable to such girls when you accept them. Better to have a pussy around than to PCC alone at home right? That is why you have several long term relationships where it is 'true love from them' but no full sexual satisfaction for you. You harm the BBWs the most because you give them false hope of marriage and long term future and then shatter their trust in men.

Come I clap for you for being kind to 60-65 kg girls and not having the balls to go after the girls you think you deserve.

[jaccy]

you have your right to choose

[1021115458]

Originally Posted by Fat Fatt

身在福中不知福
Wait till you find another girlfriend who is 性冷感。
Everything you ask, it’s a no. Even though she is chio have big breast does not mean she is willing to accommodate you. Or a girl that empties your pocket for gifts and others ...

Treasure what you have. This old saying is written by wise men not stupid people: a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush

If you really cannot stay faithful, then do commercial sex, don’t let her discover and hurt her.

fully agreed !!! what's the point of having a C/D cup, good figure, but don't let you ramp when you need to.

[catlord]

Quite a good discussion this has become. TS, here's my 2 cents. I think your solution is to expand your options. That means to 1) improve yourself, 2) improve your woman skills or 3) find girls overseas (once covid is over).

Men are men. We want to be sexually fulfilled and we want hot girls. Paying for them works but you will never get the satisfaction of capturing a real hot girl. You only live once, do you want to settle and live out the rest of your life without ever doing that? Yes love is important too, but why settle for someone who you're not happy with sexually? Why not find someone who satisfies both your heart and your dick?

Such girls are hard to find. Girls who are smart, friendly, down-to-earth, feminine and also hot are rare these days. With the rise of social media and dating apps, girls who are even a little bit attractive have their egos blown up from a very early age. They become insufferable, good for fucking but not for marriage. Hot girls who are also relationship material are unicorns. They are very desirable and they have infinite options to choose from, especially in SG where there is no shortage of guys who are fit, rich, smart, etc you name it. There are plenty of elite level men in SG and if you don't belong there, it's hard to get and keep such girls.

Many bros here suggest finding some side action to please your urges while remaining faithful to your BBW GF, while some suggest suppressing your lust because girls who truly love you are rare. I'd say, they're rare to low level guys and plentiful to high level guys. Raise your own level and increase your options, don't settle, get a hot GF who's also a high quality person. Become rich and ripped, improve your woman skills, explore overseas where the game is easier.

[Ah hai]

be contended with her. guess she is the right one for you

[sherine]

Originally Posted by jaccy

you have your right to choose

totally agree