Have you wondered when will it be your turn?

[sadfa]

My regular cheonging bro went AWOL. Finally found him and his life is in shambles. He told me he contracted STD and dare not tell his wife. He told me he always use condom but kiss the girls on the mouth and have bbbj. We only go for KTV gals, not FL.

Shit. Makes me wonder whether i contracted anything since we fcuked the same girl b4 (not together!). Looked at sam's faq and saw some STD dont even have any discernible symptoms.

Dont know whether to do the DSC test. Dont know whether to stop cheonging totally. But ohhhh, the gals keep calling me! Others here have the same worries and concerns?

BTW I am not 16 yr hor. Save the flaming somewhere else.

[thaigers]

Go for check up lah....nothing to be shy lah...actually contracting STD was a very big concern for me b4 i start cheonging. but after cheong for some time, i forget about the danger.....then recently, during a cat 40 session, my condom broke!!! Wah lau, damn scared man...so i will try to use better condom next time and be more careful...i will go to DSC clinic soon also because of this incident.........

[sadfa]

Hello thaigers,

True we can always go 4 check-up, but we cant go everytime after we cheong or every quarter, right?

My friend's experience just makes me wonder about cheonging again and how gals who look, smell and feel "ok" can turn out 2 be not ok. The worst thing is sometimes we wont know until it is too late.

Hope I wont hear any sob stories here that confirms my fears.

[perrymason32]

bro sadfa:

have I wondered...? all the time.

but like you, I also sometimes cannot resist when the girls beckon. maybe it's true, after all: we guys do think with our dick-heads!

sorry to here about your friend. chances are, he's got herpes—which, is incurable, though not life threatening. and can be asymptomatic and can be transmitted even when there are no signs of breakouts etc. it will cause a lot of emotional trauma and embarrassment too.

his wife will definitely kill him if she finds out. hope he's man enough to tell her and not pass it onto her.

you should go for the test. only anonymous testing for HIV at DSC Clinic premises done by AfA on Wednesday evenings and Saturday afternoons. the other tests, like VDRL, you have to go to the DSC Clinic itself during office hours, or actually do with your private GP (if you're comfortable with that). if you're really afraid of someone seeing you etc, go across the Causeway to get it done.

whatever, wherever, you should go for the test. it's better to know, and to know earlier, so you can get treatment earlier and get yourself out of circulation if you're infected. for eg. syphillis, which can come with mild or no symptoms for the first few years, but in later years may make a person mad and kill him. syphillis is curable in the early stages; but incurable in advanced stages.

stopping cheonging—well, bro. I'm trying. again. and real hard this time. every time the thought enters my mind to try this one or that one...I go and jack off until I got nothing left. i've never tried so hard before. so i hope i will be successful this time around.

but i cannot tell you what to do. that's up to you. just decide on it and do it—whatever it is, to stop or to carry on. but if you carry on, go for regular checkups anyway and always wrap up.

--perry

Originally posted by sadfa
My regular cheonging bro went AWOL. Finally found him and his life is in shambles. He told me he contracted STD and dare not tell his wife. He told me he always use condom but kiss the girls on the mouth and have bbbj. We only go for KTV gals, not FL.

Shit. Makes me wonder whether i contracted anything since we fcuked the same girl b4 (not together!). Looked at sam's faq and saw some STD dont even have any discernible symptoms.

Dont know whether to do the DSC test. Dont know whether to stop cheonging totally. But ohhhh, the gals keep calling me! Others here have the same worries and concerns?

BTW I am not 16 yr hor. Save the flaming somewhere else.

[MitMit]

Hi sadfa. Is like playing Russian Roulette. Once is all it needs. I done my AFA test recently. Was told to do it at least once a yr. Why wait?? Early detection decides if u live or die. Even HIV+ if detected early can help u for another 10 yr....look at Magic Johnson.

My suggestion is to slow down to a visit a month. And use protection even for BJ. GL150 and GL40 are probably safer cos they are checked often. I think FL and KTV gers are risky. Thats what im doing now.
Take up a sport. Spend time enjoying it. It is healthy and meaningful to life. Frankly, after i cut down my chionging, i found my wallet bulging with $$ all the time. So i spend them on electronic gadgets, sports shoes, sports clothing etc. And i must say i feel much better than before. Well Nike says...JUs Do It!
Im almost 3 months no paid sex liao...hehe. Think about it bros.

And Perry, trust yourself u can do it. take care.
mit

Originally posted by sadfa
Hello thaigers,

True we can always go 4 check-up, but we cant go everytime after we cheong or every quarter, right?

My friend's experience just makes me wonder about cheonging again and how gals who look, smell and feel "ok" can turn out 2 be not ok. The worst thing is sometimes we wont know until it is too late.

Hope I wont hear any sob stories here that confirms my fears.

Originally posted by MitMit
Hi sadfa. Is like playing Russian Roulette. Once is all it needs. I done my AFA test recently. Was told to do it at least once a yr. Why wait?? Early detection decides if u live or die. Even HIV+ if detected early can help u for another 10 yr....look at Magic Johnson.

My suggestion is to slow down to a visit a month. And use protection even for BJ. GL150 and GL40 are probably safer cos they are checked often. I think FL and KTV gers are risky. Thats what im doing now.
Take up a sport. Spend time enjoying it. It is healthy and meaningful to life. Frankly, after i cut down my chionging, i found my wallet bulging with $$ all the time. So i spend them on electronic gadgets, sports shoes, sports clothing etc. And i must say i feel much better than before. Well Nike says...JUs Do It!
Im almost 3 months no paid sex liao...hehe. Think about it bros.

And Perry, trust yourself u can do it. take care.
mit

Bro mitmit,

Truly a great piece of advise.... Sets me thinking real hard...

[fun4evergood]

Originally posted by MitMit
Hi sadfa. Is like playing Russian Roulette. Once is all it needs. I done my AFA test recently. Was told to do it at least once a yr. Why wait?? Early detection decides if u live or die. Even HIV+ if detected early can help u for another 10 yr....look at Magic Johnson.

My suggestion is to slow down to a visit a month. And use protection even for BJ. GL150 and GL40 are probably safer cos they are checked often. I think FL and KTV gers are risky. Thats what im doing now.
Take up a sport. Spend time enjoying it. It is healthy and meaningful to life. Frankly, after i cut down my chionging, i found my wallet bulging with $$ all the time. So i spend them on electronic gadgets, sports shoes, sports clothing etc. And i must say i feel much better than before. Well Nike says...JUs Do It!
Im almost 3 months no paid sex liao...hehe. Think about it bros.

And Perry, trust yourself u can do it. take care.
mit

A very good advise..........I will try...........

[MitMit]

Originally posted by fun4evergood
A very good advise..........I will try...........

Welcome Bros. In fact i was like most of u here. lost of how to kick chionging. I have go from playing tennis, golf, swim, sun tanning, gym, jogging, skating, Xbox gaming, cycling......to help me get distracted. I even do volunteer work on weekends.

Join a group who are into the sports or activities. That way, u will get more involve and have less time for naughty activities. Passion is the word. Find something you really love doing. Im so into skating now that i spent 2-3 nights in the ring training. And my mind is filled with how to perfect some moves rather than where, when , who to chiong. Might consider taking up sucba diving later. Is a good sport that will take u away from chiong i think.

i dun run away totally from chionging. U see, we must learn to face it, not hide from it. Learn to handle it is much better than to run away. So when a friend call to chiong, i see if i have the time. Change of piriority. Last month a group of friends chio to go HC. i when with them, and they were suprised when i told them i just did the massage and thats all. Thats what i mean handling the situation. It works fine for me. Guess everyone is different.

Any bros has a better method care to share? Thanks.

Btw, heard a kaki of mine kanna STD even with condom for bj and fj.

[Vizz]

Hiz.would like to ask more about whats dsc clinic and where is it located and the cost?thanks

[cheongkid]

Originally posted by Vizz
Hiz.would like to ask more about whats dsc clinic and where is it located and the cost?thanks

DSC Clinic is located in Kelantan Lane, off Jalan Besar. Check out their website.

http://dsc-sexualhealth.com.sg/tpl/index.html

[perrymason32]

Hi bro MitMit,

Yup, Russian Roulette is exactly what it is. Even though you may be playing with, instead of a revolver with 1 bullet and 5 empty chambers, a gun with 3 bullets and 97 empty chambers (with the condom fully on all throughout)—one is all it takes to screw your life and kiss it goodbye. The winnings are immediate but little (you get a few minutes and seconds of climactic relief), the odds of you losing are low, but the stakes are too high if you lose (the end of your life, or at least the end of your life as you know it).

In my case, I'm going cold turkey. (I'm trying the slowing down approach with another bad habit of mine—smoking—instead.) So every time I even think of cheonging, I just whip it out and beat it.

As for the taking up a sport, I support it wholeheartedly. But I tell you ah, damn tough also sometimes—for instance, going to Palawan beach (think I got the right beach name there) on Sentosa to cycle or run and take in the fresh air and THE SIGHTS—lians going hai! hai! every time they jump up and down going bouncy bouncy slapping the volleyball. Or going skating, running or cycling at East Coast Park—lians sweating away in their bikinis or bi with their butts sticking out as they stroke from left to right, right to left on their skates...aaaargggghhhh! One time last year, after I had been cleared for seven months already, I was going up and down the track at East Coast Park...and couldn't tahan anymore. So went to the Tennis Health Centre to get a BJ!

Shit lah! Nowhere is safe. Everywhere they call you—their lips so invitingly warm, their bodies so beautifully wet and salty...Especially if you, like me, like the lians!!! Anyway, as of today, my last cheong was 94 days ago. No more for me, man.

And bro MitMit, I sincerely thank you for the encouragement. I'm not going to think with my dickhead again! You take care, too—we must fight this together for ourselves, starting with our wallets, then the rest of the other important things in our lives!

—perry

Originally posted by MitMit
Hi sadfa. Is like playing Russian Roulette. Once is all it needs...My suggestion is to slow down to a visit a month...Take up a sport. Spend time enjoying it. It is healthy and meaningful to life...And Perry, trust yourself u can do it. take care.
mit

[GoldenMonkey1]

Yoz Bros,

http://www.stdservices.on.net/std/definition.htm

An informative website to prevent STDs, and what are the symtoms and cures.

Cheers